Underwear Psychology

Maria Savova is a supervised psychologist and psychotherapist. Since 2013, he has been practicing as a psychologist and psychotherapist under the supervision of a freelancer at ASIMP MC "Kyuchuk Paris" EOOD, Plovdiv. He specializes in Positive Psychotherapy according to the method of Prof. Nosrat Peseshkiyan, MD. Positive psychotherapy has a wide range of applications - from treatment to self-help for all professionals working with people.

As our long-term client, we asked Ms. Savova for a short interview.

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- Hello, Mrs. Savova! You have been our loyal customer for many years. We are glad that you responded to our request to answer a few questions related to underwear from a psychological point of view. What do you think underwear is?

MS.:

- Underwear can be considered from several aspects.

From a hygienic point of view, we know that the skin is the largest respiratory organ. Underwear is in close contact with our skin. For me personally, it is important that my underwear is made of high quality materials and that my body accepts them well. From an aesthetic point of view, although underwear is only visible when we take it off, it is important that it is well chosen, that it is the right size…

This is our invisible weapon of self-confidence. For me, the two components that complete the image of a woman are her choice of perfume and lingerie. And from a sexual point of view, it is good for the underwear to be intriguing - sexy underwear that stimulates the partner's imagination.

I .:

- You mentioned that the underwear should be well chosen, what did you mean?

MS.:

- Lingerie is an extension of the skin. When well chosen, a woman's appearance is different! By well-chosen I mean that it is the right size, that it is comfortable, that it is made of a suitable material, that it is a model in which I feel good. Color is also very important.

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"Pablo Picasso said, 'Colors like facial features follow emotions!' How would you comment?

MS.:

- I agree! The choice of color reveals parts of your character and temperament. The choice of color can be dictated by the current state or tendentious selection to convey a certain message in connection with non-verbal communication. The choice is directly related to your energy and the desire to convey a certain message.

Each color is loaded with a certain vibration and impact, for example, a person wants to wear red in one day - there are several options: willingness to take concrete action, passion, anger, ambition and determination. It is preferred by women who are passionate, energetic, ready to speak openly about their desires and express their whims.

White is the color of perfection, purity, innocence, wholeness, completeness, but also a desire to learn new things. Black is the color of the hidden, the unknown, a sense of mystery that hovers in the air, it is chosen by ladies who are sophisticated, passionate, individualistic.

Body color is preferred by women who radiate calm and serenity. By choosing body color, they declare openness and lack of secrets from others.

 I would suggest to focus only on the basic colors, as the topic is extremely broad. This may be the subject of the next conversation.

I .:

- According to one study, women have several social roles. How can we relate them to the choice of underwear and its color?

MS.:

- The social roles of women are mainly four - queen, girl, housewife and mother.

The queen is determined, categorical, direct, knows what she wants and when she wants it, she does not tolerate objections. It radiates self-confidence, power, authority. He is not satisfied with the mediocre. Her choice of lingerie would be luxurious - satin, lace, lingerie emphasizing her curves, lavish robe. It relies on an overall look and distinctive colors - black, red, purple and burgundy typical of royalty.

The girl inspires innocence, purity, trust, love and tenderness. It is liberated in gestures, inspires spontaneity, energy, carefreeness and openness. This type of women would choose yellow, pink, orange, blue ... The girl would experiment with lingerie because she likes to discover new opportunities, she is often influenced by fashion trends.

The hostess is a woman who loves comfort. She maintains cleanliness, pays attention to every detail, all her time is focused on providing comfort to the people important to her - partner and children. Because their time is committed to their social role, they prefer comfort and rely on cotton bikinis, cotton nightgowns and pajamas, which provide comfort throughout the day. The predominant colors would be white, black, gray, dark blue and flesh.

Mother - with the preparation and birth of a child, a lot of changes occur in a woman's life. This social role is the most difficult and long-lasting, quite often women freeze right there. They are anxious, responsible, overly caring, and it is often at this point that the partner feels dethroned because the focus is entirely on the new family member.

This woman tends to neglect her appearance and relies on comfortable and practical underwear for maintenance.

My recommendation from the position of 33 years of successful marriage to your clients is to be able to recreate all four roles in which a woman plays, to respect and pay enough attention to themselves, to allow themselves to be pampered from time to time and your partner!

I .:

- Since we started the topic with the partners, what is your recommendation regarding the third aspect when choosing lingerie - eroticism?

MS.:

- For each erotic lingerie includes different elements, but the most common is sexy nightgowns, bikinis, garters and high heels. All this richly garnished with lace, ribbons or satin. For the color range - red, black and pink. If you have been with your partner for a long time, there are certainly moments of stagnation in the relationship.

I recommend you to update your wardrobe by first changing the underwear you use. As comfortable as soft cotton tank tops, nightgowns or pajamas are, periodically replace them with satin or seal nightgowns or erotic lingerie… Rest assured, this will be noticed!

The pleasure will be not only from the view, but also from the thought that you have tried to impress him, ie. the effect will be 2 in 1 in your favor! - Maria Savova finished jokingly.